DISCRIMATION? DISCERNING?

Well it has been a while since we have had an event/action at the (LESBIAN HOUSE DINING- in- wimmin-only space), I know it is because of the move to THE HOUSE and she is almost ready for receiving others. I am going to start sending out invites to the wimmin next week, everybody is all caught up pulling the skins off of birds this week, well not everybody, but many. So there really is no need to talk alot about being vegetarian or eating vegan. I do believe those of us who are really true to being vegetarian/veganers/rawist will do what we do without all the fanfare for attention. I spoke with some wimmin today about being sincere in whatever it is we do and that sparked quite a conversation. I started the conversation by asking this question. When someone who declares themselves as a whatever,let me say as a firm believer of truth and to them truth is any womon who unites herself with another womon is bound to go hell and in reality is in hell already, and should be taught the truth about being a womon, and to them that truth is she should not be womon directed but should seek the truth about being here for the continuation of man and his kind. Is this discrimination or discernment?
Let me take another example. This one declares that they believe that only Black people should join the NAACP, and that anyone else who joins is making an attempt to disrupt and destroy the organization and therefore should not be allowed to join. Discrimination or Discernment? Let me propose another example. When the Italian Americans create their own club, French Americans, Jewish Americans, Polish Americans, Native Americans, etc., create their own organizations and are exclusively for the particular group of people, is this Discrimination or Discernment?
These are the thought I have been rolling over in my mind, over and over again. So why when we lesbian/wimmin get together with each other exclusively, WHY is this Discriminatory and not Discerning?