THE PLOT THICKENS OR DOES IT?

Well after much thought i have to reconsider the idea of getting rid of my alter, someone suggested that i name her give her reason d'etre, give her identity, give her more meaning in my life, and if i do that i would find that she really is a friend not a foe. I don't know if i should chance doing that, what if i do all of that and it really does not work, then she could really loose it on me and try and dominate my life and actions with her constant talk, what if she get upset with the idea of me trying to rid myself of her and becomes angry? I mean she could wreck havoc in my world and then what would or could i do? I have tried talking and reasoning with her that does not work. I have tried ignoring her and she creeps up in my head whenever she likes and talks her ass off. I know a womon who said she rid herself of her alter by drinking a lot of alcohol,not a good one for me, so she became an alkie, but she no longer had to listen to her alter, another womon told me that a good shrink could jolt me alter away, but that means i am the one who has to get the electrodes. I went again to talk to an elder, she told me that unless i could learn to see me alter as a sincere friend who always had my interest at heart, that i would always feel at odds with her. She also told me that she thought it would do me good to sit down and make an honest attempt to talk with and to,not,at me alter, that sounds like good advice for me to follow, so my next quest is a long long unadulterated talk. I really need to do this soon so as not to go really nut-c