WHAT IS THIS REALLY ABOUT MEAT MONEY OR MEN?

You know after i thought over everything i have been told in the past few days, i started to questioned myself what is this really about? the phone calls about my not going to the (LHD) action/event where there was a non-plant based meal and a man roommate. I have heard everything from being called unrealistic, prejudice, narrow-minded, anarchist,nappy headed dyke, man-hater, and an assortment of names and labels i wont bother to mention. What is this really about ? It is hard to believe that my appearance at the (LHD) action/event was that important, i have not heard any of these words aimed at anyone but me and i was not the only womon who did not show up. Me alter said to me worry not, do what you know is best for you and others who feel the same will appear. Of course i intend to. Now where am i? Yes. I never envision that a discussion of men meat and money could cause such a stir, me alter said to me you know that is not true you knew when you started on this venture of discussing the '3Ms as a divide you knew that it would not be a comfortable trip, you know you discussed this and the possibilities of losing a lotta of friends(acquaintances), so whats with the moaning and angst again? Well i just want to go on about what i have an interest in to hell with the conversation. Me alter said not healthy, conversation must always be part of your intent or you go nowhere fast, remember you did say that no matter what you and other wimmin would talk about it and that you would not allow anyone or thing to interfere with you being with and talking with wimmin in a wimmin-only-space, so now a little butt burning conversation got you running? What the hell kind of dyke are you? Well i do believe it is time for me alter to shut up. And whatever she has to say i still think that this is not about me but about some women who have a difficult time turning loose men, meat and money and rather than face that issue they would rather point at my behavior and actions,easier to do that.