A FEMINIST? WHAT IS THAT?

Why do we Feminists have to take the brunt of all that is inadequate with women specifically and society generally? This is the question the womyn ask of us who identified herself as a feminist.Why aren't the same questions asked of us not asked of men? Who trained men to act as they do? Who trained women to act as we do?If indeed the habits of men and women are incorrect in terms of the well being of each other, who created these habits? Where did the notions of a womyn's inadequacy come from?certainly not from womyn.Well, said one womyn,i personally don't see why if a women is a feminist, or a dyke or a lesbian matters in terms of what it is that makes us happy,after all i do believe happiness is the only thing in life that is really important, i think that none of us will know the difference in a 100 years.