Tuesday, December 11, 2007

FEED BACK FEED BACKS ANIMAL OR VEGETABLE?

Well without a doubt the first (LESBIAN HOUSE DINING-in-wimmin-only-space ) was quite the action/event. Early this morning the telly rings and there is some womon saying to me that she had to call me to tell me this and it (the this) had been on her mind every since the meeting. OK I said to me self get ready this one may hurt. She said that she wanted to thank me and some of the other wimmin for inviting her to one of the most inspiring evening that she had experience in a long time. I must say I was quite taken aback and surprised and told her so, I asked her what was inspiring to or rather for her, she said the variety of wimmin who were at the meeting, she also said she had been to many wimmin/lesbian gatherings/groups and had never had the experience of being around some many different lesbians/wimmin. I reminded her that not all the wimmin who were at the event see or define themselves as lesbian, she said she realized that but it was the variety that so impressed her. She then asked me if I would like to go out for a tea or lunch one day,this surprised me and I was not ready for it, and before I realized it I said no I did not think that was possible. She asked why not, I said because I really did not know her, She laughed and said of course you don't, I don't know you either, and how could we get to know each other unless we started somewhere, and lunch seemed like the perfect place to start. I asked if I could get back in touch with her, she said of course when? Surprised by her egg-i-ness, I said I would call her back in three days. She asked why three days, she said if I was going to do it I knew now as well as I would in three days. I felt a bit pushed and said OK, OK, I'll call you tonight at this she said well tell me now and let it be done, I said no I did not want to go out,she said very fine I will bring lunch to your house or rather as the wimmin called it THE HOUSE tomorrow at 2 with lunch in hand and we wont have to go out, now how does that grab you? I had to laugh at her persistence and answered ok., see you tomorrow at two. She said bye and so did I, wow I have never had a womon come on strong to me before now, that felt kind of good, I heard me alter say O look at the smile on your face.

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