ON BONDAGE OR IS IT FREEDOM?

Well my mouth is finally closed and i started to say permanently but that is not true. As far as conversation on who invites whom to eat what or what-ever and who invites whom to live with them is really not my concern or interest and i do realize that. Now to talk about it or not is my choice and i do believe we all have that choice, how any of us use the choice is an individual thang, and this is what i said to the womon talking to me about her apartment and the (LHD) action/event at her house,also told her that i thought i had talked about it enough and if she or the other wimmin wanted to join me and other wimmin at the next (LHD-in wimmin-only-space) to feel free to do so. Now on bondage is it freedom or bondage to not feel comfortable in every situation? Am i bonded by or free from having thoughts and expressing those thoughts,even though they are not the common thoughts of everyday conversation? Am i bonded by non expression or free to express thoughts even though the expressions might be unpleasant for some to hear or difficult for me tell? So am i free to be or in bondage not to? Well as my alter would say what-ever. My promise to myself is clear i will participate in all (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space) events/actions i will go where food is plant based, I express my freedom by doing so, i express my willingness to be free of bondage by eating as i do and being with whom i choose.