FOOD? MON EY?

And this womon said to me o.k. now that the (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space) is being held in another womon's home how do you feel about that? I said i feel that we have ignored ourselves again by acquiescence's to having the space in a place where we are not all wimmin together, and the agreement to have some non plant based foods really is a sell out to ourselves, since we are the ones who agreed to this arrangement. She said remember we agreed to have this in a lesbian's home and that is going to happen, so the womon has a man for a roommate she has promised that he will not be there, and as far as the food is concerned having a bit of sea food,is not going to kill us. I said you are correct the sea food wont kill us but it will kill a few sea animals. I again mentioned that the divide had happened since some of us myself included would not be at the next (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space) action/event because of the voted on agreement to go to the womon's house who lives with a man. I again asked myself if she is a lesbian what is she doing with a man for a roommate? And if she had agreed to be a part of the (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space) then why would she want to serve sea animals? and when would the divide of money make its appearance? the other two divides were there and operating . Well the 5 of us who would not go are now seen as the divide, and that really sucks. I refuse to be a part of something i really deep in my heart and core know to be divisive among us lesbian/wimmin. I said all of this to the womon i was talking to her comment was simply this when you allow a silly thing like who a womon has for a roommate keep you from being with other wimmin, or what she eats keep you from being with other wimmin you need to really consider who or what the divide really is. It sounds as though your opinions are the real divides for you and others like you who maintain such an attitude prevent others like myself from doing the real work of uniting all people. Well now i said what a complete turn around from being lesbians together in a (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space) dealing with the 3M's to uniting all people. Why is it that when we lesbian/wimmin get together for anything there is always some women who have the need to see if she or they can point us in some other directions, as though we don't know what we want or need for ourselves to become more true to ourselves, i also said i did not remember any one of us asking for new directions, she said if this were true we (meaning us wimmin) would not be divided over this simple issue. O now it's a simple issue.WOW. I don't give a rat's behind what any one has to say here i will go to a (LHD-in-wimmin-only-space),but now what do we do those of us who feel this way can we now continue with our own agenda? I shall see.